A therapist colleague of mine who doesn’t work within a harm reduction framework has a nephew who is struggling with problematic substance use and she shared with me last week that she finds herself being more sympathetic to her clients than her nephew about their drug use.
I had the same reaction as her when I was involved as a family member in my own family’s therapy experience when my nephew was working on his substance misuse issues. It was before I was a harm reduction therapist and my incongruent reaction to this opened my eyes to my own perceptions of my substance using clients and I realized just how pervasive the judgments about people using substances are in our culture.
The judgments were so ingrained for me, it took me several years to shed these stereotypes, but as family members we don’t have the luxury of time and such an opportunity for this awareness. These judgments are damaging to individuals and families in treatment–damage that makes healing that much more difficult. It reinforces, and sometimes adds to, the trauma that many people enter treatment wanting to address.I’ll be exploring the effects of stigma on our families in future posts and would love to include your reactions on how it has affected you and your relationhip with your loved one, and what have you done, or do, to adjust…
I’m curious about people’s reactions to this from the perspective of a family member, a person using substances, or a treatment provider?
Any suggestions for reducing the treatment-inducing stigma that can can be such a barrier to good care? Email me at firstname.lastname@example.org with your experiences and I’ll share them in future blog posts.